My friend and i went out clubbing and he abandoned me at night and i had nowhere to go for hours as the trains stopped running and i had no money for a taxi...
Basically he agreed to meet me at 1 30 as i wasn't allowed in a club because I didnt have my id, which already I was surprised he chose to go in the club without me but he had friends in there so i said it was okay, so my friend went in and i basically wandered the streets for hours as there were no trains till 4am...
I essentially had a panic attack while walking around by myself and it didn't help there were hundreds of ppl on the streets all drunk and acting crazy. When it came to 1 30.... i walked back to the club and msg him... he replied with "sorry 2..." then eventually that became 2 30.... then 3am... I didn't meet back up with him until a little after 3, by that time obviously we couldn't go to any other clubs.
He's basically my only friend that I have right now, I am in my early 20s and our friendship is rocky at times. But lately I feel that because of my social anxiety, which disables me from speaking up sometimes? he takes advantage of me and disrespects me sometimes. But we do have really fun times together most of the time, just I don't know... I didn't even want to be angry at him because I am afraid to loose the one friendship I have. Am I overreacting?
Basically he agreed to meet me at 1 30 as i wasn't allowed in a club because I didnt have my id, which already I was surprised he chose to go in the club without me but he had friends in there so i said it was okay, so my friend went in and i basically wandered the streets for hours as there were no trains till 4am...
I essentially had a panic attack while walking around by myself and it didn't help there were hundreds of ppl on the streets all drunk and acting crazy. When it came to 1 30.... i walked back to the club and msg him... he replied with "sorry 2..." then eventually that became 2 30.... then 3am... I didn't meet back up with him until a little after 3, by that time obviously we couldn't go to any other clubs.
He's basically my only friend that I have right now, I am in my early 20s and our friendship is rocky at times. But lately I feel that because of my social anxiety, which disables me from speaking up sometimes? he takes advantage of me and disrespects me sometimes. But we do have really fun times together most of the time, just I don't know... I didn't even want to be angry at him because I am afraid to loose the one friendship I have. Am I overreacting?