I believe a rule needs to be added that makes it against forum policy to accuse someone of not trying to get better.
Also there needs to be some kind of rules about repetitive probing/accusatory/insinuating questions. Like if a particular user appears to be on a crusade repetitively asking people questions that insinuate they shouldn't be posting here if they're not trying to overcome their anxiety. That is harassment. There is no forum policy here that says you have to be trying to overcome your anxiety or you can't or shouldn't post here. Not as far as I know anyway. It makes people feel unwelcome and sets a hostile, aggressive tone. Many of the people who have SA have to deal with enough unfriendly, aggressive people in real life. They come here to talk about stuff in a setting where they won't be treated that way. I can't really speak for everyone else but if I want to be bullied I don't need to come here to get it.
And just generally. Aggressive and probing questions should always be subject to moderation if a complaint is made. I have long noticed that it almost seems like you're being interrogated when you post here. What kind of a support forum is that? If people want to share very specific private details about themselves they will. To have someone just ask how often you masturbate is a very aggressive and unfriendly thing to have happening on a forum like this one. And this happens all the time. It just goes on and on. It's not like it's a once in a while thing that slips notice. A complete stranger has no business asking you how often you masturbate or insinuating you shouldn't. Especially when that is completely unsolicited.
First of all, if that is going to be discussed at all there should be a specific place you have to go where everyone is there for that. The entire forum should not be peppered with probing masturbation questions and accusations. Ridiculous.
Half the threads in the support section should not be implying that you should have one specific reason for being here or you have no business being here. That's about as unsupportive as it gets. Some people just want to talk to other people who have social anxiety. They should not be getting attacked for being here by people who think they don't have a right to post here. Really. I'm just tired of it. I see it all the time. I have kind of done it too a few times but there really needs to be some kind of intervention when someone is doing it all the time. If there is someone who should not be posting on this forum, it should be up to the mods and the admins to tell them that. Not some random person
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