Im divorced from the wife of my children and have 2 sons,one aged 50 who i see very often,and is a great lad.The other aged 48 still lives with my ex wife with his girlfriend.
The son living with my ex 20 minutes away will only come and see me,or phone three times a year,Christmas,birthday,and fathers day,doesent sound that bad cept i think he only appears as i allways give him a good amount of cash,and he spends very little on me.
He comes on fathers day.......i think as his birthday is the next day,the 17th,and he allways gets a decent pressie.
Ive told him i dont want any presents,and to save his money,a card is great,but year in year out ive said,come and see me more often,not just on his birthdays,or christmas.....but he never does.
Anyway he phoned today,and said are you home this afternoon,as ill bring your fathersday card,cant come on my birthday...Sunday as ill be drinking with my mates.
I lost it and told him if he cant be bothered any other times,dont bother
to show your face,and i hung up.
so fed up with 25 years of his selfish attitude.Was i wrong to act like this
your veiws welcome