I want a lot of kids, and I do mean A LOT. Like 10-15, but I'm probably just going to have one or two since that would be way too expensive and I don't think I'd ever find a girl interested in being my personal baby factory
If I say one my kid is going to wish they had a brother or sister.
If I say two, my kids are going to say they had another brother or sister they could go to when they fought.
If I say three, I say I think that is the right amount.
Luckily It's not me who is going to carry out these babies but I will argue for 3 babies whenever that time comes
If I know woman good enough I am most likely going to lose that debate if she disagrees
I'm not really sure if I want kids or not. I mean I do eventually but i'm not sure if i'm good enough genetically. Like my kids would end up with physical and mental issues.
I would rather adopt. Plus there's already enough kids, why not adopt a kid who needs a home?
I doubt i'll ever have kids, but i've always said 3. One is too lonely (im an only child so i know). If you have two and both are girls or both are boys, then you'd want another one to get the gender you're missing. If you do have a boy and girl, then you'd wanna see for fun what the third would be. Idk 3 is just a good number.
I am an only child and I am not close to my family, and I would love to have my own kids one day. I kinda like the idea of a semi-big, happy family, something I never had and something I'd like to give to my kids, one day, and something I can only dream of feeling a part of.
Not 100% if I want kids, or if that option will ever come up. But if I do, I would want at least 2, but max 3. I don't want my child to not have a sibling.
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