Social Anxiety Support

shyprettygirl · 10-23-2009, 12:27 PM

well tonight iwas invited to my boyfriends homecoming football game and i really dnt wanna go

imean its sounds like fun and im supposed to meet his mom tonight buhh ijuss cant get to the fact that idnt wanna go!

can you guys tell me wat u think?? thanxx
I accept convos from everyone

grrungis · 10-23-2009, 01:01 PM

First did you tell him you would be going?

Also will he be dissapointed if your a no-show?

Will he understand if you choose not to go?

Does he know you have SAS?

Make up an excuse if you chose not to go or Tell him that you dont want to meet his parents just yet.

inna sense · 10-23-2009, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by shyprettygirl

im supposed to meet his mom tonight

meeting the parents is one of the scariest things in the world...tell him if you went youd have a panic attack.

Girl_Loner · 10-23-2009, 05:45 PM

When is it? Sounds like it is an importaint moment for your boyfriend.
Maybe you could muster up the courage? It is flattering that he wants you
to meet his mum. And you may have to meet her at one point, at least if
you meet her at the game you won't have to hold a conversation for a long time (since you will be both watching the game) and afterwards the topic is pretty much taken care of.

I think you should give it a go if you can!

shyprettygirl · 10-23-2009, 10:02 PM

THANXX EVERY1 For the advice

heres my update (also under i guess im just a big scardey cat -> general disscussion)

earlier i was talkin about how i wass supposed to go to my boyfrens football game and i didnt go! he wasnt very dissapointed buhh he really wanted me there. ( && no he does not kno ihave SA) he really wanted me to come and to see me especially since i havnt been able to hang out lately. im goin to see him for a couple of hours (hopefully) after i go to the city with a frend (hopefully). i really wanna see him and i really wanna go to his nexx game!! ( && meet his mom ) he says that she always askin about me and she really wants me to start coming around im juss scared she not gonna like me

well thanks every one for the advice on my thread advice from "My friday Night"

muchh love and pllzz give me as much advice as you can thankss'

shyprettygirl · 10-23-2009, 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by grrungis

First did you tell him you would be going?

Also will he be dissapointed if your a no-show?

Will he understand if you choose not to go?

Does he know you have SAS?

Make up an excuse if you chose not to go or Tell him that you dont want to meet his parents just yet.

yess buhh i told him imight not make it because im really tired

and yeaa he was a lil dissapointd that i wasnt there to support him

and no he doesnt know i have sa so no he didnt really understand

buhh he knew i didnt wanna meet his mom and i didnt wanna sit there at the game alone

10-23-2009, 12:27 PM	#1 (permalink)
shyprettygirl Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Bay Area CA Gender: Female Posts: 18	My Friday Night well tonight iwas invited to my boyfriends homecoming football game and i really dnt wanna go imean its sounds like fun and im supposed to meet his mom tonight buhh ijuss cant get to the fact that idnt wanna go! can you guys tell me wat u think?? thanxx I accept convos from everyone

10-23-2009, 01:01 PM	#2 (permalink)
grrungis Status: Sucks Being All Alone Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Ottawa, On Canada Gender: Male Age: 18 Posts: 49	First did you tell him you would be going? Also will he be dissapointed if your a no-show? Will he understand if you choose not to go? Does he know you have SAS? Make up an excuse if you chose not to go or Tell him that you dont want to meet his parents just yet.

10-23-2009, 05:45 PM	#4 (permalink)
Girl_Loner Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Cardboard Box Gender: Female Posts: 524	When is it? Sounds like it is an importaint moment for your boyfriend. Maybe you could muster up the courage? It is flattering that he wants you to meet his mum. And you may have to meet her at one point, at least if you meet her at the game you won't have to hold a conversation for a long time (since you will be both watching the game) and afterwards the topic is pretty much taken care of. I think you should give it a go if you can!

10-23-2009, 10:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
shyprettygirl Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Bay Area CA Gender: Female Posts: 18	THANXX EVERY1 For the advice heres my update (also under i guess im just a big scardey cat -> general disscussion) earlier i was talkin about how i wass supposed to go to my boyfrens football game and i didnt go! he wasnt very dissapointed buhh he really wanted me there. ( && no he does not kno ihave SA) he really wanted me to come and to see me especially since i havnt been able to hang out lately. im goin to see him for a couple of hours (hopefully) after i go to the city with a frend (hopefully). i really wanna see him and i really wanna go to his nexx game!! ( && meet his mom ) he says that she always askin about me and she really wants me to start coming around im juss scared she not gonna like me well thanks every one for the advice on my thread advice from "My friday Night" muchh love and pllzz give me as much advice as you can thankss'