So, I got into a situation at work. A truck driver I work with got into it with me over some bull****. He hopped out of his truck and marches up to me angrily, throwing F words at me. I have learned how to act harder than I feel, so I didn't back down, I got crazy and snapped:
"u need to get back in your motha****in truck before some **** jump off! I'll **** you up out here."
It played out well, he got back in the truck talking **** the whole time. Deep down, I get nervous about altercations. I just let the rage play out, but then I have less control in the situation. The last fight I got into, I got jumped, kicked down a flight of steps and broke an arm.
How do you react to aggression?
I'm grown up now with decent credit, I'm not trying to fight all the time. But it seems like u have to be ready at all times. I'm good at hiding the fact that I want peace, but I get that voice deep down like "come on, let's just chill." But I don't want to look weak, cuz I'm not.