Social Anxiety Support

goodthing · 11-03-2009, 11:13 PM

So I met this new guy, he's such a sweetheart and I think perfect for me. My question is though, how can I tell if he likes me? Also, how do I flirt with him? I know this question is so high school, and I should know the answer, but I don't. Help!

Dempsey · 11-03-2009, 11:18 PM

Try talking to him normally first until you're both comfortable.

Futures · 11-03-2009, 11:46 PM

If he talks to you, then he probably likes you.

We men are rather simple.

jim_morrison · 11-04-2009, 12:03 AM

I'm pretty hopeless at flirting, I usually just cease up lol, sometimes if I'm with a friend, they will point out something like "that girl we just talked to was trying to flirt with you, why didnt you respond?" and I think, oh, I didn't even realise that, lol, how hopeless of me.

rincewind · 11-04-2009, 02:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Futures

If he talks to you, then he probably likes you.

We men are rather simple.

Exactly. If he's talking to you when he doesn't have to, he likes you.

inna sense · 11-04-2009, 03:46 AM

i hope you two end up in a relationship

nothing to fear · 11-04-2009, 07:35 AM

i don't know how to flirt either. i think when you talk with him just try to be extra personable, try to hold eye contact for longer, smile a lot, small things like touching his arm/body contact or sitting close to him. tell him how much you enjoy talking to him or spending time with him and if there are other things you like about him then don't be afraid to be open and compliment him.

i'm kind of bad at these things but thats the best i can think of.

11-03-2009, 11:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
goodthing Status: SAS Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 52	Flirting? So I met this new guy, he's such a sweetheart and I think perfect for me. My question is though, how can I tell if he likes me? Also, how do I flirt with him? I know this question is so high school, and I should know the answer, but I don't. Help!

11-04-2009, 12:03 AM	#4 (permalink)
jim_morrison Status: SAS Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Australia Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 1,027	I'm pretty hopeless at flirting, I usually just cease up lol, sometimes if I'm with a friend, they will point out something like "that girl we just talked to was trying to flirt with you, why didnt you respond?" and I think, oh, I didn't even realise that, lol, how hopeless of me. __________________ Warning: I am not a trained medical professional. Any information provided by me is based on my own personal experiences and research and is not intended to be used as professional medical advice. Please contact a medical professional before taking any action that may be discussed on this board.

11-04-2009, 03:46 AM	#6 (permalink)
inna sense Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 3,146	i hope you two end up in a relationship __________________ duality in oness << new song click here for some songs i did with others

11-04-2009, 07:35 AM	#7 (permalink)
nothing to fear Status: silence is sexy Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Toronto, Canada Gender: Female Age: 20 Posts: 4,840	i don't know how to flirt either. i think when you talk with him just try to be extra personable, try to hold eye contact for longer, smile a lot, small things like touching his arm/body contact or sitting close to him. tell him how much you enjoy talking to him or spending time with him and if there are other things you like about him then don't be afraid to be open and compliment him. i'm kind of bad at these things but thats the best i can think of. __________________ everything was beautiful, and nothing hurt. ~ i really like music. and photography, though i'm nothing special.

11-03-2009, 11:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
Dempsey Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Sydney Australia Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 635	Try talking to him normally first until you're both comfortable.

11-03-2009, 11:46 PM	#3 (permalink)
Futures Status: SAS Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Midwest Gender: Male Age: 28 Posts: 1,904	If he talks to you, then he probably likes you. We men are rather simple.