Social Anxiety Support

TheDaffodil · 10-03-2009, 09:49 AM

There was an incident when a boy I knew decided to spice up his story about us making out...by adding on another activity. I never heard about it till a guy who really liked me asked me to do the same for him when we made out and asked why I wouldn't and I couldn't even...I was so freaked out that something like that was going around about me that I couldn't deny it. The words wouldn't come out. I just told him I had to go home and practically ran from him.

I did end up approaching the guy in front of 2 of his friends. He had tried to say hi to me like I hadn't heard what he said so I called him on it. And he made me look like a fool. He said I was being paranoid and crazy, not at all owning up to his lie of course. At that particular school I was already an outcast (not a lonely one - I hung out with other outcasts) and now THAT!? I was just a freshman and hadn't even moved to this state any more than a few months prior. When I changed schools (we moved to a bigger house) I decided to lay low as much as possible, and I stopped being interested in guys, because I didn't want to give anyone a reason to bring me down.

I was wondering if any other students here had experiences like that...one where a rumor went around about them?

N3XT2NON3 · 10-03-2009, 10:24 AM

happened to me. i had a rumor going around saying i was possibly a cheater. i was with an ex and broke up (she did it over a damn text message

) anywho, alot of my friends didnt know we broke up and i decided to talk to another girl. for a few weeks i was considered a cheater to that ex. people just shouldn't minded their business because i knew what i was doing and i'm no cheater

10-03-2009, 09:49 AM	#1 (permalink)
TheDaffodil Status: Antsy. Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Maryland Gender: Female Age: 19 Posts: 1,166	Rumor has it.... There was an incident when a boy I knew decided to spice up his story about us making out...by adding on another activity. I never heard about it till a guy who really liked me asked me to do the same for him when we made out and asked why I wouldn't and I couldn't even...I was so freaked out that something like that was going around about me that I couldn't deny it. The words wouldn't come out. I just told him I had to go home and practically ran from him. I did end up approaching the guy in front of 2 of his friends. He had tried to say hi to me like I hadn't heard what he said so I called him on it. And he made me look like a fool. He said I was being paranoid and crazy, not at all owning up to his lie of course. At that particular school I was already an outcast (not a lonely one - I hung out with other outcasts) and now THAT!? I was just a freshman and hadn't even moved to this state any more than a few months prior. When I changed schools (we moved to a bigger house) I decided to lay low as much as possible, and I stopped being interested in guys, because I didn't want to give anyone a reason to bring me down. I was wondering if any other students here had experiences like that...one where a rumor went around about them? __________________ "Our doubts are traitors, And make us lose the good we oft might win By fearing to attempt." - William Shakespeare NotForSaleCampaign.org \| StopTheTraffik.org \| SlaveryMap.org

10-03-2009, 10:24 AM	#2 (permalink)
N3XT2NON3 Status: Waiting 4 The Sky To Fall Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: NJ Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 313	happened to me. i had a rumor going around saying i was possibly a cheater. i was with an ex and broke up (she did it over a damn text message ) anywho, alot of my friends didnt know we broke up and i decided to talk to another girl. for a few weeks i was considered a cheater to that ex. people just shouldn't minded their business because i knew what i was doing and i'm no cheater