Originally Posted by socialbutterflywannabe
So even though he was messaging me in between, still means he rejected me? He said he has done this before w/other people.
Well, I don't know the whole story, and my mind is impaired from hunger and tiredness.
But blocking someone is a pretty damn clear rejection to me... If it's because he didn't want you to see his facebook stuff... and see the truth about him... sounds like a manipulative liar to me.
I'm paranoid too... I don't reply people for a while... but I only block them when I hate them.
Someone blocked me because I was having a bad time and she didn't want to "deal with the drama"... When she explained me that she was a worthless uncaring friend after unblocking me, I insulted her until she blocked me for good, to make sure to deserve it. And to push that bad fake friend away.
Having mental issues is no excuse for attacking you, whining about his bad day would be annoying enough... But removing you from his friendlist is a rejection... But blocking you... That's an attack...
I wouldn't tolerate being threated this way... And I don't think anyone should.
At best maybe to tell him "let me know when you're ready to try to be friends until I actually do something wrong to you, but please express your hurt feelings because it could be a misunderstanding, unintentional, and we both need to learn how to respect each other's limits"
I draw the line at mocking my feelings, lying, and blocking me.
I guess you need to ask where you line is, do you even like this guy, is he really better than being alone...
If it feels wrong to you then it is. If you don't mind being blocked in some places and spoken to in others... that's up to you... But he's the type of person that basically kill people online from his social circle without a warning or explanation... without reason...
He sounds like a serial killer, with no self control... that can't be good for your wellbeing... Having social phobia by fear of what MIGHT happen is bad enough, having it from trauma and proof... I struggle with that... I call it quits when there's a red flag... and his attitude is one.
Write the pros and cons to being his friend... But no one trash me, no one threat me like trash and is call a friend after that. Nope.