Social Anxiety Support

liarsclub · 01-03-2009, 10:00 PM

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Prodigal Son · 01-03-2009, 11:05 PM

They did a study on this for athletic performance using males, it didn't really have any benefits and hormone levels leveled off. I guess it might work for others things and have a sense of control. I think I would just feel really horny, after a certain point you reach a plateau.

NR. · 01-17-2009, 04:41 PM

I completely stopped after being active (every 2-3 days). It's been almost 20 days for me!

What a journey it's been! Especially while being on supplements, working out, etc.

After being aroused on 3 occasions and holding back,
something in my bladder region (prostate maybe) feels like it's gonna burst!
This happens on the day I'm aroused, but on the next day I feel normal.

Any of you guys experienced this enlargement feeling?

Today, I saw skirt and its about to happen to me again.

screwjack · 01-19-2009, 02:12 AM

What about wet dreams? If you don't release it God is going to do it for you eventually. Kind of messy too.

I'd say just follow the buddhas middle way, go for moderation.

ju_pa · 01-20-2009, 12:57 PM

Storing sexual energy builds dopamine. I can enjoy life much more and I can be much more energetic when I have stored sexual energy. But as soon as I have released my body fluids, I feel this emptiness and loneliness next day. I have noticed that when I am horney and have sexual desire, I don't feel fear nor I don't have depression.
Take a look at these two link:

http://www.wilywalnut.com/sexgenius.html
http://www.reuniting.info/wisdom/sex..._and_grow_rich

This sexual energy thing is pretty popular since N.Hill released his book think and grow rich. And his book is done by analysing hundreds of most successful and unsuccessful people in America.

Also, having sexual desire means having more oxytocin. Oxytocin is called the hormone of love and usually makes you feel that everything is great.

akstylish · 01-20-2009, 02:53 PM

...are you serious? O.o I have been afraid of ejaculating often because the sperms are high in protein. XD
Off-topic: I don't know much about how sexual organs work, so don't laugh at me.
Does the chance of prostate/testicular cancer increase in proportion to the frequency of ejaculation? My logic is that the more you lose sperms, the more will be created, and there will be a higher chance that a harmful mutation occurs the gametes.

Oh, and how often would you say is the healthiest?

dyssomnia · 01-20-2009, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Frostie

Also, if you shake hands with the General, you should deploy the troops and complete the mission

lmao. roger that

Prodigal Son · 01-20-2009, 10:14 PM

I'm in my late 20's and they haven't stopped...not complaining.

Prodigal Son · 01-20-2009, 10:50 PM

I think I just have high testosterone, it can't be the norm.

LavenderRose · 01-20-2009, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by becks1789

really? I learned that they stop as you get older,and most men dont even remember having them when they were younger... i wish i could get wet dreams, thats so unfair!

Many women have wet dreams, most simply don't realize it. So maybe you do have them

LavenderRose · 01-20-2009, 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Prodigal Son

I think I just have high testosterone, it can't be the norm.

It may not be the norm, but I bet tons of guys wish they had higher testosterone levels like you do!

screwjack · 01-21-2009, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by becks1789

No thats not true, wet dreams eventually stop as you get older. Its more common among teenagers.

They only stop because as you get older you actually have sex an can masturbate freely. If you hold it in you will eventually have a wet dream, if you're a man anyway. This sexual energy stuff shouldn't be too difficult if you are a woman, but almost impossible if you are a man...

stealyourface722 · 01-21-2009, 02:56 PM

not to be gross... but wet dreams are DA BOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMBBBBBBBBBBBBBB

aviator99 · 01-29-2009, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by mind_games

I think I only made it to 14

.

Haha, thats like the farthest i've gone in like 6 years, and only because I was in Europe. Seriously, if you're a guy and can go 6 months, -that-is-amazing. With all the stimuli on tv, internet, emails, everywhere a guy goes - 6 months !?!?! I suppose if you're a monk or something in China and all you have to do with your spare time is pray, meditate, and stare at blank walls and nature for months, well...maybe. Maybe if you're 30+ years old and lost interest also. But any guy 30 or younger, in an urban environment, ROFL, good luck.

I think the movie 40 Days and 40 Nights is an accurate representation of a guy under the age of 25

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Originally Posted by becks1789

really? I learned that they stop as you get older,and most men dont even remember having them when they were younger... i wish i could get wet dreams, thats so unfair!

They're supposed to stop during puberty I believe. Nonetheless, you wouldn't want a wet dream, believe me, its not pleasant to wake up to in the morning, eww.

NR. · 01-30-2009, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by becks1789

really? I learned that they stop as you get older,and most men dont even remember having them when they were younger... i wish i could get wet dreams, thats so unfair!

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Originally Posted by aviator99

They're supposed to stop during puberty I believe. Nonetheless, you wouldn't want a wet dream, believe me, its not pleasant to wake up to in the morning, eww.

Yah, it isn't pleasant at all afterward. You get this "blue ball" feeling.
I remember this when I was 13-14 yrs old. I had one while I was in the shower
while I was awake! and not even touching myself.

Well, a little update (see my previous post). I tried to hold it.
Some posted that they couldn't get past day 14 or 22.
That seems right on, because I remember on day 14 I had a strong urge to.

On day 22, I had to do it. I was afraid for my health.
It was Prostatic Congestion. It really felt like day 14, but twice as bad.
My L & R tubes felt inflamed, and I was able to feel them right below my skin (superficially).
They were expanding, and the prostate or something near it was causing constipation.

Next time I try, I'm not going to see lace or lingere again.

mind_games · 01-30-2009, 08:54 PM

lol, give yourself a pat on the balls for trying

NR. · 01-30-2009, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by mind_games

Lol, give yourself a pat on the balls for trying

haha, that would hurt right about now! cause my balls are almost like

!

proximo20 · 01-31-2009, 06:42 AM

try to store it in South Florida with all the cleavages and legs around you.

Maybe this is why people who live in warmer climates are more outgoing. The dopamine level never drops.

Non · 02-07-2009, 05:06 AM

I find it is very hard to hold myself back from "releasing tension".

It makes me more anxious, around people. it doesn't let me sleep.. and I seriously get a case of "the itch".

I wish I could hold it but I just haven't been able to, to release this tension.

I get the itch, and I get depressed.

Non · 02-07-2009, 05:18 AM

i actually once made it to two months. That was even without sexual energy transmutation technique and for the love of god I just could not stop masturbating. I did it halfway you know, just until I got contractions but not full on ejaculatory orgasm.

I used to believe in this stuff but nowdays it's been 10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 00000000000000..... times much harder for me since I get an incredible itch to release. you know burning sensation in my penis and I dont even have to look at porn or anything. And I think all about sex.

I relate it more though to having an "itch" down there rather than have thoughts of sex.

If I could FREAKING learn tantric orgasm though I think this would be cured. It's just so damn hard. I've tried the technique of "drawing the nergy up the spine" one, and the one where you contract your stomach muscle during stimulation but none of this actually works.

Unless I need a partner, and where, how the f_ can I find one? I can also attribute this "horniness" to never having had a girlfriend. So.. get's pretty fckin lonely and boring.

like i said if only I could learn REAL TRUE tantric orgasm this would be freakin awesome, but I think it's pretty much impossible if all you have is your hand.

Wheres the damn science to all this mystical stuff?

Why haven't we seen ANY studies on tantric orgasm or sexual transmutation to prove them?

edit: also I recently stopped looking at porn for this. Thinking that maybe I have just conditioned my reproductive organ that I am supposed to be having daily "sex" or "regular" ejaculation.

I dont think it would do much either because I attribute my "desire" to a physical sensations, and not just my thoughts.

Anyway Im still trying it out.. so maybe at least I can learn to gradually cut down..

Like I said if I could just sleep well I would be fine... but it does keep me up at night...

01-03-2009, 10:00 PM	#21 (permalink)
liarsclub Status: take it from me.. Join Date: Aug 2008 Gender: Female Posts: 740	-- __________________ Farewell my black balloon, let the weather have its way with you

01-03-2009, 11:05 PM	#22 (permalink)
Prodigal Son Status: SAS Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: The Wastelands (Kansas) Gender: Male Age: 29 Posts: 2,090	They did a study on this for athletic performance using males, it didn't really have any benefits and hormone levels leveled off. I guess it might work for others things and have a sense of control. I think I would just feel really horny, after a certain point you reach a plateau. __________________ I know you can see me. Bad guys always see me. My plans suck. People die. It's always a mess.

01-20-2009, 10:14 PM	#28 (permalink)
Prodigal Son Status: SAS Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: The Wastelands (Kansas) Gender: Male Age: 29 Posts: 2,090	I'm in my late 20's and they haven't stopped...not complaining. __________________ I know you can see me. Bad guys always see me. My plans suck. People die. It's always a mess.

01-20-2009, 10:50 PM	#29 (permalink)
Prodigal Son Status: SAS Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: The Wastelands (Kansas) Gender: Male Age: 29 Posts: 2,090	I think I just have high testosterone, it can't be the norm. __________________ I know you can see me. Bad guys always see me. My plans suck. People die. It's always a mess.

01-30-2009, 08:54 PM	#36 (permalink)
mind_games Status: dances, like a fridge Join Date: Nov 2008 Age: 23 Posts: 1,570	lol, give yourself a pat on the balls for trying __________________ "this is not me, this is me reacting to your perception of me"

01-17-2009, 04:41 PM	#23 (permalink)
NR. Status: male Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: U.S. Posts: 44	I completely stopped after being active (every 2-3 days). It's been almost 20 days for me! What a journey it's been! Especially while being on supplements, working out, etc. After being aroused on 3 occasions and holding back, something in my bladder region (prostate maybe) feels like it's gonna burst! This happens on the day I'm aroused, but on the next day I feel normal. Any of you guys experienced this enlargement feeling? Today, I saw skirt and its about to happen to me again.

01-19-2009, 02:12 AM	#24 (permalink)
screwjack Status: SAS Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Pacific NW Gender: Male Posts: 986	What about wet dreams? If you don't release it God is going to do it for you eventually. Kind of messy too. I'd say just follow the buddhas middle way, go for moderation.

01-20-2009, 12:57 PM	#25 (permalink)
ju_pa Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 78	Storing sexual energy builds dopamine. I can enjoy life much more and I can be much more energetic when I have stored sexual energy. But as soon as I have released my body fluids, I feel this emptiness and loneliness next day. I have noticed that when I am horney and have sexual desire, I don't feel fear nor I don't have depression. Take a look at these two link: http://www.wilywalnut.com/sexgenius.html http://www.reuniting.info/wisdom/sex..._and_grow_rich This sexual energy thing is pretty popular since N.Hill released his book think and grow rich. And his book is done by analysing hundreds of most successful and unsuccessful people in America. Also, having sexual desire means having more oxytocin. Oxytocin is called the hormone of love and usually makes you feel that everything is great.

01-20-2009, 02:53 PM	#26 (permalink)
akstylish Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Georgia Age: 21 Posts: 698	...are you serious? O.o I have been afraid of ejaculating often because the sperms are high in protein. XD Off-topic: I don't know much about how sexual organs work, so don't laugh at me. Does the chance of prostate/testicular cancer increase in proportion to the frequency of ejaculation? My logic is that the more you lose sperms, the more will be created, and there will be a higher chance that a harmful mutation occurs the gametes. Oh, and how often would you say is the healthiest?

01-21-2009, 02:56 PM	#33 (permalink)
stealyourface722 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: CBUS, ohio Gender: Male Posts: 276	not to be gross... but wet dreams are DA BOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMBBBBBBBBBBBBBB

01-31-2009, 06:42 AM	#38 (permalink)
proximo20 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Miami Age: 28 Posts: 743	try to store it in South Florida with all the cleavages and legs around you. Maybe this is why people who live in warmer climates are more outgoing. The dopamine level never drops. __________________ "A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty." "When I look back on all these worries , I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had a lot of trouble in his life most of which had never happened." W.Churchill

02-07-2009, 05:06 AM	#39 (permalink)
Non Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Miami Age: 23 Posts: 121	I find it is very hard to hold myself back from "releasing tension". It makes me more anxious, around people. it doesn't let me sleep.. and I seriously get a case of "the itch". I wish I could hold it but I just haven't been able to, to release this tension. I get the itch, and I get depressed.

02-07-2009, 05:18 AM	#40 (permalink)
Non Status: SAS Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Miami Age: 23 Posts: 121	i actually once made it to two months. That was even without sexual energy transmutation technique and for the love of god I just could not stop masturbating. I did it halfway you know, just until I got contractions but not full on ejaculatory orgasm. I used to believe in this stuff but nowdays it's been 10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 00000000000000..... times much harder for me since I get an incredible itch to release. you know burning sensation in my penis and I dont even have to look at porn or anything. And I think all about sex. I relate it more though to having an "itch" down there rather than have thoughts of sex. If I could FREAKING learn tantric orgasm though I think this would be cured. It's just so damn hard. I've tried the technique of "drawing the nergy up the spine" one, and the one where you contract your stomach muscle during stimulation but none of this actually works. Unless I need a partner, and where, how the f_ can I find one? I can also attribute this "horniness" to never having had a girlfriend. So.. get's pretty fckin lonely and boring. like i said if only I could learn REAL TRUE tantric orgasm this would be freakin awesome, but I think it's pretty much impossible if all you have is your hand. Wheres the damn science to all this mystical stuff? Why haven't we seen ANY studies on tantric orgasm or sexual transmutation to prove them? edit: also I recently stopped looking at porn for this. Thinking that maybe I have just conditioned my reproductive organ that I am supposed to be having daily "sex" or "regular" ejaculation. I dont think it would do much either because I attribute my "desire" to a physical sensations, and not just my thoughts. Anyway Im still trying it out.. so maybe at least I can learn to gradually cut down.. Like I said if I could just sleep well I would be fine... but it does keep me up at night...