Yes, another goal (almost done here)

[bwidger85]

Yes, I write a lot of goals but it means I'm staying motivated, so here we go!


I don't know why but it has taken me so long to realize that if someone wants a relationship they will make it happen. I guess it has taken me so long to realize because A) never had a successful long term relationship B) used to take rejection so personally that I always thought I was doing something wrong.

My views have changed now. I refuse to think I'm doing something wrong now because I'm not. I'm reasonable and I'm apathetic of others. I'm willing to learn and I'm willing adapt. How does this help me? It helps me because it takes the negative focus off of me and it helps me see things more realistically. I am beginning to realize that it's just about meeting someone who wants the same things. If someone really wants something they will make it happen.

This may sound out of left field but I feel like I'm about to break a major barrier (approaching randomly), and I'm confident if I focus on it I'll gain confidence and adapt. I have the motivation and I'm solely going to focus on that now. I just feel like I am at that point where I am almost done learning what I've wanted to learn and test out about dating, etc, and I'm closing in on my last goals. I have this approach thing I want to master and gain comfort with because it's one of those things that I sometimes feel comfortable with and sometimes don't, and a lot of the times it's experience and just looking at it differently that makes me approach. It may sound unrealistic or too large of something to aim for, but I want to feel confident and ready to approach any women at any time and get a number. This is going to be my focus for a while. I want to make it seem like a normal thing.