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Old 02-09-2012, 08:50 AM   #721 (permalink)
 
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I did. It didn't go very smoothly and I got stuttery and inarticulate, but I brought everything up that I wanted to, and argued, and in the end it seems to have worked out. She called me later to tell me she actually could do something she'd told me she couldn't and asked me to call her back so she'd know I got the message. I called back within a couple of hours instead of putting it off too long and probably not calling back at all.
WAY TO GO! CARAMBOLA You did it! You felt the fear, tiredness, etc. and did it anyway. Good for you. I hope this counselor works out well for you. Congrats on following up with the call back immediately to. You go, girl!


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Old 02-09-2012, 08:57 AM   #722 (permalink)
 
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Hi everyone
i have only just joined the site after months of looking at it and being a wimp!, but i think that turning 30 and the realisation that life is passing me by made by bite the bullet sort of!
Start your day here sounds like a great idea for me and reading some of the posts makes me realise how much time i waste just by Not making any goals
Its nice to know we are not alone in trying to improve our lives, for years i have felt isolated, i wish i had joined sooner!!!
PLANETJOJO Nice to have you with us . You'll find a lot of support here. Just keep coming back!

As for me...

I made it to the end of my temporary job assignment. I'm proud of that because some days were tough. All the Automatic Negative Thoughts tried to creep in but I shooed them away with a new technique. Whenever I found my mind wallowing in muck I turned on what I call my "internal smile" to change my inside climate. I've found that very effective. So now I'm back to the daily grind of completing "must do's" until another job starts up in March. Today I did a lot of neglected cleaning and organizing paper work. It's not even noon and I'm pooped.

Keep posting those goals and making your day what you want it to be!
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Old 02-27-2012, 08:10 AM   #723 (permalink)
 
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Hi all:

It's been awhile. Goals for today:

-organize closets
-make chicken salad
-rest/read
-get ready for work
-watch a movie or two
-get ready to start working again tomorrow
-clean bathroom
-get clippers and polish to do nails
-do nails

Don't see any new posts. Come on, I know there are some goal setter go-getters out there. Put those goals up and make it happen today!
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Old 03-03-2012, 10:31 AM   #724 (permalink)
 
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For chem:
- Finish rewriting notes
- Finish lab
- Read ch. 12

For physics:
- Work on assignments (hopefully get at least one done)
- Rewrite/finish lab for Monday

Other:
- Eat (decently)
- Go for a walk in the evening
- Stretch
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Old 03-03-2012, 03:49 PM   #725 (permalink)
 
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*take a relaxing shower (DONE!)
*draw something that takes effort
*clean the bathroom
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Old 03-04-2012, 07:51 AM   #726 (permalink)
 
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Wondering what can I do on a sunny sunday morning that isn't completely useless.
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Old 03-05-2012, 08:22 PM   #727 (permalink)
 
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11.58am Eh, good enough time to start the day:P
Today I will:
1.do some exercise. (4.00pm done)
2.finish reading a magazine so I can throw it out. (1.22pm done)
3.walk five times around the house if I consider playing computer games.
4.create an ebay account (6.01pm done)
5.create a paypal account (6.53pm done)
6.make a list of job sites to search on
7.search on all of them

Okay it's 12.20pm now, I got distracted looking at my email. And I think it's time for lunch.
6.02pm and I feel like I am running out of time.
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Old 03-06-2012, 10:28 PM   #728 (permalink)
 
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2.21pm Time to start for the day>.> Only six hours left in the day.
Today, I will:
1.cut my nails (2.33pm done)

2.sign up to a website. (7.12pm done)
3.exercise (4.15pm done)
4.finish reading a magazine (4.15pm done)

5.go for a 15minute nap (2.50pm done)
6.sort out some bookmarks (8.13pm done)
7.make a list of job sites to search on (8.13pm done)
8.search on all of them
9.turn off computer by 8.30pm (8.26pm I'm getting off now, maybe tomorrow I will start applying for jobs properly.)

Maybe I can finish everything on my list today.
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Old 03-07-2012, 07:58 PM   #729 (permalink)
 
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11.30am Which is the earliest I've written down my goals so far and I've already done two things.

1.do some exercise (10.00am done)
2.finish reading a liftout (10.00am done)

3.create an amazon account (5.36pm done)
4.report income online (12.05pm done)

5.finish setting up paypal (6.00pm)
6.search for jobs to apply for (8.29pm I had a little look so I'll cross this off lol)
7.meditate for 5 minutes for three times. (5.44pm)
8.log on to all email accounts (5.36pm done)
9.print e4sheet (12.15pm done)
10.write letter to myself to read in april
11.go down to shop to buy materials and lunch. (1.57pm done)

-turn off computer by 8.30pm (getting off now)
-walk around house five times if I think of playing computer games
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Old 03-09-2012, 01:53 AM   #730 (permalink)
 
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I plan on finishing my last assignment in my course before Monday so I can travel to Ikea without feeling guilty I should be studying instead.

Edit: finished already!
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Old 03-09-2012, 02:37 AM   #731 (permalink)
 
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That's a god idea! I sometimes make a list for myself but making it public may be even more effective!
11:25am, let' start!

1. finish writing one internship application
2. send it
3. make a list of 5 other places where i would like to get an internship
4. get the contact details ready
4. read 3 texts for my studies
5. make tiramisu
6. go shopping before 4pm
7. sit in the sofa and read "experience life" with a nice cup of tea
8. prepare and eat a decent lunch as soon as possible
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Old 03-09-2012, 02:44 AM   #732 (permalink)
 
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6.41pm Start day.
Today I will:
1.Finish filling out my job seeker diary thingy. (8.40pm done)
2.Watch those two videos. (7.05pm done)
3.Meditate for five minutes twice. (7.45pm, 8.48pm done)

Remember to get off line so I can go to sleep soon...
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Old 03-09-2012, 10:07 PM   #733 (permalink)
 
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I plan on finishing my last assignment in my course before Monday so I can travel to Ikea without feeling guilty I should be studying instead.

Edit: finished already!
Awesome!
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Old 03-09-2012, 11:09 PM   #734 (permalink)
 
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3.09pm starting for day

1.write letter to myself to read in april
2.meditate for 5 minutes for three times.
3.exercise
4.read liftout
5.tidy up liftouts
6.complete questionaire
7.google those two things (8.26pm done)
8.sweep house (5.04pm done)
9.dust furniture (5.36pm done)
10.change cup (5.40pm done)
11.wash hair (7.37pm done)
12.cut tube (4.18pm done)
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Considering that I felt so bad on my way home that when I got here I went straight to my bed and didn't move for a couple of hours even though I'd already had to pee for over an hour, it's pretty good that I eventually managed to get up, take a shower, feed myself and the animals, and do dishes.

I really hope I feel better tomorrow so I can just get as much school stuff done as possible. It's overwhelming to list it all, so I'll try to just start by picking something and working until it's done. I lose so much time worrying about what's most important and where to start. I also really need to do some laundry. I'm out of quarters, though. I'm told you can ask for a roll at the grocery store, but I'm afraid to try. I normally avoid the cashiers and use self-checkout whenever possible.
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I'm not gonna spend the entire day inside in front of a computer.
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1. Enjoy myself today, no mentioning of anything negative. (rubber band on wrist)
2. Vaccuum bedroom.
3. Read at least 1 chapter of CoK
4. 20 situps before bed.
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Old 03-11-2012, 12:01 AM   #738 (permalink)
 
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4.01pm start
1.exercise (5.15pm done)
2.tidy up liftouts (6.30pm done)
3.read one of them (6.30pm done)

4.letter to myself for april (6.41pm done)
5.meditate for five minutes three times (5.21pm, 7.04pm)

may add more later
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this is a great thread.

goals for tomorrow:
1. ride my stationary bike (done)
2. spend an hour reading textbook (er, only did half an hour, will try a whole hour tomorrow)
3. call bank about term deposit (done)
4. find out where the orthodontist is located (done)
5. eat when i'm hungry (this did not go well, ha)
6. only drink water & tea (done)
7. write some notes (didn't do this)
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I really hope I feel better tomorrow so I can just get as much school stuff done as possible. It's overwhelming to list it all, so I'll try to just start by picking something and working until it's done. I lose so much time worrying about what's most important and where to start. I also really need to do some laundry. I'm out of quarters, though. I'm told you can ask for a roll at the grocery store, but I'm afraid to try. I normally avoid the cashiers and use self-checkout whenever possible.
I did about 29% of the problems for one physics assignment. Not enough (I have three more late assignments to do plus three labs to finish just for that class), but better than the nothing I've been doing. And I got quarters.

Tomorrow:
- Laundry
- Finish my two late physics labs
- Try to finish at least one late assignment (or, preferably, all of them, but that's unrealistic)
- Finish chem lab
- Rewrite, organize, and summarize chem notes
- Organize other notes and things
- Take a walk?
- Go to bed before 1am at the latest even if I don't feel tired enough
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