Social Anxiety Support

Fuzzy Logic · 10-31-2009, 11:38 AM

Yeah, so I posted this in an update to my other thread but no one seems to have noticed... Anyway, the society I joined at uni is going out to bar as a group next Wednesday as a way of getting to know each other. I'm pretty nervous because I have never really gone to a place like that before. I haven't gone out at night in years.

Anyway, a question; do I need to wear anything particular or can I just wear whatever?

2Talkative · 10-31-2009, 11:42 AM

Depends on the place but if they didn't say you need proper attire then I would say you can where whatever. Just don't show up in your undies and you sohuld be ok.

bwidger85 · 10-31-2009, 12:22 PM

Wear w/e it is you want to wear. It doesn’t matter. Most people dress up a little bit, but I wouldn't over do it. If anything, the women are the ones who go all out most of the time.

matty · 11-02-2009, 09:47 PM

May be different from where I live. But most people wear jeans and tshirts. Thats to clubs and pubs any night of the week.
If it is a little upper class, I guess you pull out a decent polo or long sleeved shirt. Guess we are pretty casual
Have a good night.

Fuzzy Logic · 11-03-2009, 09:40 AM

Uh, I just read my email and found out it is tonight and not Wendesday. I'll get something to eat before heading over there. Better check the train times to make sure I can get home if I drink anything...

matty · 11-03-2009, 03:04 PM

Hope your having an awesome night.

Fuzzy Logic · 11-04-2009, 03:01 AM

I missed it! When I arrived the bar was closed and I just assumed the email I got was incorrect and it was actually Wednesday as had been mentioned arlier, but it turns out it was on Tuesday the other people had already headed down to a different place because the other one was closed. Damn it, I'm so bummed out about this.

matty · 11-04-2009, 02:48 PM

Aww man, that sucks. always next time

10-31-2009, 11:38 AM	#1 (permalink)
Fuzzy Logic Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 312	Going out to a Bar Yeah, so I posted this in an update to my other thread but no one seems to have noticed... Anyway, the society I joined at uni is going out to bar as a group next Wednesday as a way of getting to know each other. I'm pretty nervous because I have never really gone to a place like that before. I haven't gone out at night in years. Anyway, a question; do I need to wear anything particular or can I just wear whatever? __________________ “There is but a thin line between madness and genius. I have been trying valiantly to cross it, but I don’t think I’m mad enough yet.”

10-31-2009, 11:42 AM	#2 (permalink)
2Talkative Status: MIA Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Vancouver BC Gender: Male Age: 28 Posts: 509	Depends on the place but if they didn't say you need proper attire then I would say you can where whatever. Just don't show up in your undies and you sohuld be ok. __________________ "I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds." - Henry Rollins

10-31-2009, 12:22 PM	#3 (permalink)
bwidger85 Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Ohio Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 708	Wear w/e it is you want to wear. It doesn’t matter. Most people dress up a little bit, but I wouldn't over do it. If anything, the women are the ones who go all out most of the time. __________________ Album #3 (download my complete third album as it is right now!)

11-03-2009, 09:40 AM	#5 (permalink)
Fuzzy Logic Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 312	Uh, I just read my email and found out it is tonight and not Wendesday. I'll get something to eat before heading over there. Better check the train times to make sure I can get home if I drink anything... __________________ “There is but a thin line between madness and genius. I have been trying valiantly to cross it, but I don’t think I’m mad enough yet.”

11-04-2009, 03:01 AM	#7 (permalink)
Fuzzy Logic Status: SAS Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 312	I missed it! When I arrived the bar was closed and I just assumed the email I got was incorrect and it was actually Wednesday as had been mentioned arlier, but it turns out it was on Tuesday the other people had already headed down to a different place because the other one was closed. Damn it, I'm so bummed out about this. __________________ “There is but a thin line between madness and genius. I have been trying valiantly to cross it, but I don’t think I’m mad enough yet.”

11-02-2009, 09:47 PM	#4 (permalink)
matty Status: Falling Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Brisbane Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 202	May be different from where I live. But most people wear jeans and tshirts. Thats to clubs and pubs any night of the week. If it is a little upper class, I guess you pull out a decent polo or long sleeved shirt. Guess we are pretty casual Have a good night.

11-03-2009, 03:04 PM	#6 (permalink)
matty Status: Falling Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Brisbane Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 202	Hope your having an awesome night.

11-04-2009, 02:48 PM	#8 (permalink)
matty Status: Falling Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Brisbane Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 202	Aww man, that sucks. always next time