Social Anxiety Support

supreme.mugwump · 05-08-2009, 05:22 PM

There's this girl I really like and I only have 2 days left of working with her. I really don't want to lose this opportunity because if I keep worming out of talking to people I like then I will never find anyone!! So for next week:

1. Start a conversation with her, e.g. about what she did on the weekend
2. Ask her if she would be interested in keeping in contact after I leave

#1 should be do-able
#2... EEK!

Wish me luck

Madison_Rose · 05-08-2009, 05:38 PM

Good luck, supreme.mugwump

Phibes · 05-09-2009, 04:11 AM

Girls are so good dude. I see heaps that I would just love to kiss because they're so beautiful.. Awwhhhh :P

Happy Hunting!

slylikeafox · 05-09-2009, 10:46 AM

Good luck!

I also have a problem with worming out of talking to people I like. Missed opportunities suck

irvanm87 · 05-10-2009, 06:30 AM

good luck man...well be rooting for u

LALoner · 05-10-2009, 06:41 AM

Just trust you heart. Oh wait, thats the hard part.

Zoe1988 · 05-10-2009, 06:44 AM

Good luck!!
look on the bright side, even if she says no, you wont be seeing her again so you have nothing to lose

Meee · 05-10-2009, 12:42 PM

Good luck

dawntoearth · 05-12-2009, 05:30 PM

I'm a bit late for the good luck, but better late than never. How did it go? I hope well!

supreme.mugwump · 05-13-2009, 12:41 AM

Thanks people

Nah, it's not too late DawnToEarth, tomorrow is my last day with her. So far I have achieved 2 conversations!! So that's progress. But tomorrow is the day I have to ask, or I'll regret it. I'll let you know what happens...

papaSmurf · 05-13-2009, 12:47 AM

Hooray for conversations! Good luck tomorrow!

TorLin · 05-13-2009, 01:16 AM

w00t.
coffee with a girl

how cool is this?

let us know how it goes.

SoloSage · 05-13-2009, 02:26 PM

Good luck

supreme.mugwump · 05-14-2009, 12:19 AM

Thanks everyone! It was really helpful to have you all to report back to, cos it made it harder to worm out. I got up the courage to ask today if she wanted to keep in contact! I'm so proud! Now I have to figure out what on earth to do next, now that I have her phone number...

05-08-2009, 05:22 PM	#1 (permalink)
supreme.mugwump Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Australia Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 183	Ask her to go for coffee There's this girl I really like and I only have 2 days left of working with her. I really don't want to lose this opportunity because if I keep worming out of talking to people I like then I will never find anyone!! So for next week: 1. Start a conversation with her, e.g. about what she did on the weekend 2. Ask her if she would be interested in keeping in contact after I leave #1 should be do-able #2... EEK! Wish me luck

05-08-2009, 05:38 PM	#2 (permalink)
Madison_Rose Status: conservative gay hamster Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: United Kingdom Gender: Female Age: 27 Posts: 1,307	Good luck, supreme.mugwump __________________ Freethinker? Skeptic? Agnostic? Atheist? Not sure? www.the-brights.net

05-09-2009, 10:46 AM	#4 (permalink)
slylikeafox Status: SAS Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Michigan Gender: Male Age: 23 Posts: 1,685	Good luck! I also have a problem with worming out of talking to people I like. Missed opportunities suck __________________ "Aim at the sun, and you may not reach it; but your arrow will fly far higher than if aimed at an object on a level with yourself" - Joel Hawes

05-10-2009, 06:41 AM	#6 (permalink)
LALoner Status: SAS Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: City of Angels Gender: Male Posts: 301	Just trust you heart. Oh wait, thats the hard part. __________________ More about Depersonalization Disorder than you want to know.

05-10-2009, 12:42 PM	#8 (permalink)
Meee Status: SAS Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: England Gender: Male Age: 24 Posts: 1,422	Good luck __________________ [Last.FM] [AnimeList]

05-09-2009, 04:11 AM	#3 (permalink)
Phibes Status: blessed with lucky sevens Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Brisbane, Australia. Gender: Male Age: 21 Posts: 640	Girls are so good dude. I see heaps that I would just love to kiss because they're so beautiful.. Awwhhhh :P Happy Hunting!

05-10-2009, 06:30 AM	#5 (permalink)
irvanm87 Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2009 Gender: Male Age: 22 Posts: 64	good luck man...well be rooting for u

05-10-2009, 06:44 AM	#7 (permalink)
Zoe1988 Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2009 Gender: Female Posts: 11	Good luck!! look on the bright side, even if she says no, you wont be seeing her again so you have nothing to lose

05-12-2009, 05:30 PM	#9 (permalink)
dawntoearth Status: SAS Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Boston Gender: Female Age: 21 Posts: 95	I'm a bit late for the good luck, but better late than never. How did it go? I hope well!

05-13-2009, 12:41 AM	#10 (permalink)
supreme.mugwump Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Australia Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 183	Thanks people Nah, it's not too late DawnToEarth, tomorrow is my last day with her. So far I have achieved 2 conversations!! So that's progress. But tomorrow is the day I have to ask, or I'll regret it. I'll let you know what happens...

05-13-2009, 12:47 AM	#11 (permalink)
papaSmurf Status: Adrift Join Date: Jun 2008 Gender: Male Age: 20 Posts: 139	Hooray for conversations! Good luck tomorrow!

05-13-2009, 01:16 AM	#12 (permalink)
TorLin Status: MayTheForceBeWithYou Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: California Gender: Male Posts: 17,058	w00t. coffee with a girl how cool is this? let us know how it goes. __________________ MTFBWU (May The Force Be With You) - TORLIN AIM, MSN, YIM: T0RL1N Skype: Tor_Lin Visit me at; ToryLing.com \| LivingAnxious \| Facebook \| Myspace \| Last.fm

05-13-2009, 02:26 PM	#13 (permalink)
SoloSage Status: A Drifter Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: stuck in the decimal system Gender: Male Age: 19 Posts: 708	Good luck

05-14-2009, 12:19 AM	#14 (permalink)
supreme.mugwump Status: SAS Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Australia Gender: Female Age: 23 Posts: 183	Thanks everyone! It was really helpful to have you all to report back to, cos it made it harder to worm out. I got up the courage to ask today if she wanted to keep in contact! I'm so proud! Now I have to figure out what on earth to do next, now that I have her phone number...