continiung from what i stated, u will notice that everything that u've accomplished in life so far ( big or small ) was accomplished by having those key features. think about it...and u will believe.
here's a perfect example, i guarantee that anyone here who NEEDS to overcome social anxiety and has faith that s/he will, will see improvements and end up defeating social anxiety. i REALLY BADLY WANT to overcome SA, i believe deeply that since others have overcome it so i will too, and because of this i have already seen improvements in my general everyday life. and i will continue to fight SA until i live a social life with friends i'll have fun with everyday.