I can relate alot. Doing the most random and trivial things has always given me terrible anxiety. Driving was one of the hardest things for me. Although I got my license about a month ago and now it doesn't really bother me. On the brightside at least you know what your problem is now. I'm 18 now and didn't know what was wrong with me until about six monthes ago although I've suffered from it since before high school. I would try finding a therpist that specializes or has alot of experience with anxiety hopefully you will get a better experience that way. I know therapy has helped me alot in understanding it and working to reduce it. You feeling the way you do is defiently not your fault. Hope you find some of the help you need here
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