omg, that sounds exactly like my friends and I. I NEVER answer my cell on the first ring (even with friends)...and one friend said 'maybe i should start sending you emails because you never check your phone' or another friend- 'Pick up your phone this time!' I'm so bad and I always say in my mind i'll call them in an hour, but I never do....I've actually lost friends this stupid way ...And most guys I meet think I'm a 'tease' but I'm just the opposite..easy almost!