I am finding it hard to understand why being judged as ugly hurts so much. I was called ugly a number of times in the past and it made me feel so upset and unhappy. I became really self conscious of being looked at, in fear of being judged as ugly. Obviously its a negative judgement and not a nice one, but I can't put my finger on why it is so hurtful.
I think to myself is it that I have been judged as a being as disgusting and horrible?
Is it because I have been judged as inferior, inadequate, unworthy?
Is it because of the shame of it, being described as ugly and feeling ashamed that I am ugly?
Is it because I want acceptance and to be seen as good enough and desirable?
Can anyone help me understand what it is that is so hurtful about being judged as ugly? I don't feel like I can overcome this problem until I really understand what it is I fear so much about being judged this way.
Thanks
I think to myself is it that I have been judged as a being as disgusting and horrible?
Is it because I have been judged as inferior, inadequate, unworthy?
Is it because of the shame of it, being described as ugly and feeling ashamed that I am ugly?
Is it because I want acceptance and to be seen as good enough and desirable?
Can anyone help me understand what it is that is so hurtful about being judged as ugly? I don't feel like I can overcome this problem until I really understand what it is I fear so much about being judged this way.
Thanks